Number 17.
Asian.
NBA.
I’m sure you know who I’m talking about!
There has been a lot of talk about Jeremy Lin. Not only among
the basketball fans, but also Asian moms are starting to watch NBA because of
him. Who is this guy and what is his power over these Tiger moms that even they
start watching basketball?!
So besides the fact that Jeremy Lin is an Asian who is
playing in NBA, which is already impressive enough, why else is he so captivating? Of
course he’s got skills, but there must be something about him that mesmerizes
these Tiger moms.
Personally, I think the main reason is his academic success.
I mean…he goes to HARVARD! The dream school that all Tiger moms wish their
children can attend. The school that guarantees success. The school that
ensures a high paying job. The school that says “you are set for the rest of
your life.” The prestigious school that all Asian moms ever wanted is for their
children to be able to graduate with a degree from the Harvard School. Jeremy
Lin’s academic success definitely makes him more likable among the Tiger
moms. So why else?
Mentioned several times in my previous blogs, filial piety
is VERY important in the Asian culture. The younger generation is to respect
elders and give back to the family. Most importantly, it is to honor the family
name and make the family proud. Jeremy exemplifies filial piety in many areas
as he is always thankful for his parents understanding in letting him pursue
his passion. In many of his speeches, he thanks his parents for the opportunity
and their upbringing. He pays respect to his parents and honors the family as a
NBA star who initiated the Linsanity around the world. The Lin family is
honored. What else can make his family more prideful to have Jeremy Lin, the
idol of many, as their son.
Last but not least, Jeremy Lin has a high paying job, and a
high paying job indicates the success of the upbringing of his parents. Tiger
moms’ emphasis on academic success is so their children can go to a good
college. A degree from a good college, in their minds, can lead to a high
paying job. And a high paying job is equivalent to a bright future. It is expected for the children to take care of their parents when parents grow old. So ultimately, the children is like an investment that pays back in return. The higher the stock the higher the return.
So all in
all, Jeremy Lin fulfils the three basic requirements: high degree in academics,
gives pride to the family, high paying job.
However, what Tiger moms need to see is WHAT lead to his
success? Yes, he is smart and talented. But if he were raised in a family with
strict Chinese child-rearing styles, would he be the same? Would he be in the
same position as he is now? If his parents did not let him pursue his hobby and
his love for basketball, would he be able to be the all time NBA star he is
now? I’m sure his parents also pushed him academically when he was younger for
him to be able to attend Harvard and he must be exceptionally intelligent. I
believe his success is not merely from his parents’ upbringing. But I do
believe it has some impact and it has steered him into the direction where he
is now and shaped him in some way or the other for him to be where he is today.
So besides seeing him as the ideal Chinese child who all
Tiger moms wish their children to be, maybe a little lenience like his parents
can be beneficial too?